How to approach W about OM

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Yes. He told me he hoped we could work it out but it is up to us noone else. He said it is tough when one wants it and the other does not. He also made reference to his divorce and how he and my W mother are much happier. He then went on to tell me to take it one day at a time and told the both of us to be honest and communicate with each other

My w told me her father told her to get out of the siuation and move in with him temporary till the other apt is ready. My w said she could not do that cause it would be a 2hr drive to work so she will just wait till the other apt is ready.

My w told me her father spoke to me from experience and to her with his heart.