SC-IF your H really wants to reconcile, he will not put a time limit on it! What do YOU want? He is going to have to prove to you that this is what he wants! How many times has he done this?

He is not done yet with MLC and sounds like he hasn't resolved feelings of OW...are YOU ready to reconcile?

All I have is questions and no advice...

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing