rr22, I do know that anger or arguing with him helps his depression. I read something about this in a book I bought. So very true when I think back to how long I think he has been depressed.... very eye opening. I am afaid that he is going to just go forward with the d and realize that it wasn't the solution. I can't do anything about it though.
I am still contemplating talking with his mom. She is a nurse and she has said that she thinks he is depressed. I just think she isn't willing to stand up to him and express her concern to him. I'm sure she is afraid he will get mad at her and then not talk with her. Or she is fed up with him being unhappy and can't tell him what to do. I wish she would read the book I got...I know she has seen his moods and anger.
Still thinking about what to do....not sure of anything right now.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
