My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

rr22 the h doesn't have a solution for anything except that he is unhappy with everything in his life. Don't worry though he thinks I am great and that he doesn't have a reason really for why he is unhappy with our m, except that he "tried". I told him that he is quitting. He said fine if that is what you want to call it. Any conversation we have goes in circles and he doesn't have solutions except maybe he should be d...but he doesn't know if it will solve anything. round and round and round with no solution. Oh, and he couldn't look me in the eye when we talked today either. I asked him "why" and he said because he feels guilty....for wanting a divorce I guess. Who really knows.

The thing with the ow is very high school as I have said before, but you are actually more correct by calling it seventh grade. loved that. The EA is more than just phone calls and texting. They do meet and shop and work out at the gym from what I can tell. He has admitted in the past that they are "friends" but that he isn't wanting to d because of a relationship with her. I am actually not stupid and have seen texts and emails he has written that actually say differently at what he is trying to accomplish. He had some stupid seventh grade excuse.

Regardless, I am stuck and don't know what to do except again try to distance myself. After I sent the text this afternoon he finally texted back two and a half hours later. I ignored it. then he sent three more texts, one of them asking if I was ok. He also called. Again, didn't answer. I finally texted back a simple "yes and yes" to answer his two questions.

I'm just so digusted that he is quitting and not manning up to find a real solution to his problem. I guess that can't happen though until he actually gets help.