No sense beating yourself up, put the energy into repairing the damage and unfortunately stomaching the temporary storm... its not that bad really.. I know it feels like it, but if the worst she's doing is talking about leaving and giving you the cold shoulder...I think you can handle it.
I am also dealing with outside influence. Co-workers who are not pro-marriage and a FIL who is saying "you need to get out of that situation" to her.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10