Exh is struggling financially. Not really his fault. The company he works for (his exfil) is very slow. He has been getting half the hours he used to. He is stressed and I can see it. The next question will be for me to reduce his CS. Obviously not going to. He isn't happy how things are going there. Was talking about quitting and working for his brother.
He is being strange. No more sexual advances but is being really nice. Not sure the motive yet.
Today when he came by to finish up babys insurance forms baby was happy to see him. She is getting used to him coming more often and keeps saying 'daddy! daddy!" when he is here. Today when he was leaving we were standing outside and she was waving bye to him. He sent a text 30 seconds later saying 'that makes me sad'...I jsut said me to exh, me too!
What a blow it!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!