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[talia]

(((AVER)))

I'm sorry things have been tough. Just remember - your xIL may not "like" new GF because they actually like her, but to keep your X happy....

Try to assume that everything ISN'T about you... then you will usually be right! OH - and remember - what other people think about you is none of your business!

Something I've been doing to FORCE myself to be grateful for the good things in my life... I have a list of three good things that happened each day. Sometimes its as simple as I got the dishes done or I didn't cry all day.... it forces me to keep a positive perspective and I've been putting them in a notebook so I can look back and see how far I've come!


Hang in there... BIG HUGS...

T