I would have kicked him out. Being drunk is no excuse for stupidity. I mean he told your kids? WTF!

Confront him tomorrow. I don't think you can wait any longer.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER