How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

To know my W before the sitch and who she is now, is a harsh reality of how far gone she is (emotionally, mentally).

Yes I am a Police Officer. The difference between those I encounter on the streets and the situation at home is I don't love them, so their words and actions don't affect me. On that note...
Before our sitch nothing on the job bothered me. When I went to homes where spouses were abused I never thought to myself "That's me" , "that's what I go through" now when I go to "Domestic Trouble" calls I get sick to my stomach, all I can think about is my sitch, it makes me want to reconcile even more.