He also said something to the effect that he was just going to go on for the rest of his life depressed and unhappy and it wasn't fair for me to be dragged along. WTF, so is he admitting he is depressed? I mentioned that if he really was depressed everything else can seem to be the problem when really it is the depression.
This is such a typical circular depression conversation. Did he ever come up with a solution for himself that did not have to do with dumping you being the solution? If he won't get IC, meds, or exercise, maybe he's one of those people who will go all the way through to D to realize it did not "cure" anything. Hope not. Sorry you are going through this. Maybe reread the depression section in DIVORCE REMEDY book.
