Nicole8: Husband doesn't think he is being fair to me and said again that I should be mad at him. I ask him if he would be happy if I was mad at him and he said it would make it easier.
He wants you to fight him so he can get angry. Getting angry energizes depressed people. It will also make it easier to blame you.
If you fight him about OW, it will give him something to be angry about. Did you ever see what the people on the infidelity thread had to say about this EA? It seems like it's just a phone one that is nothing but a distraction, but still. How seventh grade. How irritating. What a MASSIVE, EMBARRASINGLY OBVIOUS symptom of depression. If he wanted a D and wasn't depressed, he would have just picked up someone at a bar by now. He doesn't want to deal with that either. He wants a fake phone R to distract him from his not getting help or making choices. I'm sure you are really tired of this b.s.
