Rocked, tell me more about the EMDR.

I left my crappy C who I was only sticking with to do the EMDR, and will be starting with a new, "mindfullness-buddhist-based" one next week, who also does EMDR.

The Bad C said I couldn't do EMDR on "recent trauma" but the new one implied I could.

What have you gotten from EMDR? does it help with the anxiety? the repeating repeating repeating the story?

Sounds like you and H are dealing with the travel/time away as best as you can. Sounds like you are BOTH working on it, which is great.