"W said she wanted to invite me and would ask her mom."
This sucks. They're your kids and if your W thinks its okay for you all to do something together then she should bypass her mom altogether. Especially since they don't get along that well.
Ya, I know. I'm used to it though. No point in arguing with W about it. I have been down that road before and the results didn't pan out when I have in the past. W's mom always decides who can be part of what and who can't and everyone else cowers to her. Nothing changed there.
I will just do something else if it doesn't pan out and if it does, I will join them. I don't know if they are doing an easter egg hunt or not.
I was with them all last night to celebrate W's stepdads birthday for dinner and cake. He apparently wanted me there for the family party with the kids. I am usually invited if they want to make sure the kids are there. They all went out and did the adult version this past saturday night and that I was not invited to and never am when it is just the adults. Honestly, when I am with W's family, it feels so completely fake anyways. It is like everyone pretends to be happy I am there, but then I am never invited or talked to about anything else when it is adult related. And actually, I am having to fake that I am happy to be there because I really don't want to be there since I know how they feel about me for the most part.
It is ok. I know where I stand. It doesn't bother me. It almost more bothers me that I am actually invited to anything with them.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
