"W said she wanted to invite me and would ask her mom."
This sucks. They're your kids and if your W thinks its okay for you all to do something together then she should bypass her mom altogether. Especially since they don't get along that well.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.