I saw my therapist today after she had met with the W. I was soooo nervous.
We talked about a lot of things now that she got some insight into our problems from my W. She said we are a very unusual case. For most of my session I didn't think it was going well and I thought maybe she was trying to make me start looking to the future alone or not to get so hung up on fixing my M. But then she said that my W had agreed to see my therapist together with me. I totally lost it because for the first time it seemed my wife was finally saying she's willing to meet me halfway and see what therapy can do.
Question: To all those who finally got your W to attend marriage counseling: What was that first session like? Painful I guess? Lots of dirty laundry? So curious....
