Young love--you are talking about my H, right? LOL!!! She is older than he is and a grandma to six grandkids!! I am the young one--ha ha.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Oh my, I didn't read your sitch, but just glanced at your "bio"
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
These 5 lines speak volumes. What a journey this must be for you and your kids.
I admire you for still standing...or are you?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
We are not divorced and he has not ever said he wants one either.
I still honor my marriage vows but I am so busy with other things that I do not even think about him like I once did. I don't date either but I do go out with friends.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, I think you should go on a date, or at least make him THINK you are...... I wonder how he would react to that one? Hummm..... You got nothing to lose.
MG - You are still standing. Otherwise you would've divorced him by now and started dating. Do you ever think about divorce? I'm 52, I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life alone if he doesn't come back. I'm just at the beginning of this nightmare and so far can't even think about ever loving anyone else beside WH
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Me go on a date--nothing phases the guy! And I am not going to stoop to his level of lies, etc. Dating is something to do when divorced which I am not.
Mila--He could divorce me if he wanted but he has not even discussed that. If he really wanted one, he would have done it long ago.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
