My H is only home on Wednesday evenings. (He works out of town during the week.) How am I supposed to explain my tears and loss of eye make-up, while I ran into my office "for just a minute". I am sorry, my friend. I read part of this while I was waiting for my boys to finish soccer training, and started the tears then.
This is the beginning of the rest of your life. This is the beginning of letting your wife go. This is the beginning of loving yourself as no other.
If there's a chance to reconcile, it will come from this type of action. It won't if there's pressure added.
She won't have time to realize what's missing, if you're there. She won't have time to appreciate what you gave to her, if you're there. She won't have time to get rid of her personal ghosts, if you're there.
You don't want a cheater. You want to be the chosen one, without other options in view.
Grieve and get it out. You could be letting go of the worst, but so close to grabbing hold of the best.
HUGS, friend.
I'll be back in an hour and a half or so...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
