Well, that's how she felt for ten years right? She felt like she was trying and you were being counter productve and negative

She kept it up for ten years... how long can you last feeling like she did?

This is a blatant test man.. she's testing to see if you have the balls to be a married man when its really painful.. and trust me if she ain't mounting another man each night while you do all this work you don't know what pain is... you got it GOLD