How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

You know at times I feel like DBing is hopeless. I understand he core concept of DBing. Change oneself and hopefully the WAS will be INFLUENCED by the changes reconciliation becomes possible.

I am unfortunate to have her in the same household with me but in many sitches that is not the case.

Lately our days consist of her going to work coming home then sleep till ???. As she sleeps I do productive things while she remains counter-productive. When our sitch began and for the first 3-4 weeks into it we were doing a lo together and now that has stopped. I tell her I am heading out and she is welcome to come but she never budges.