WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

That's what I'm planning for at the moment... To wait until the last possible time to get it in there... H knows the 6pm thing too though (but hopefully won't remember in his foggy state).

I checked with the mortgage company (through my mom.. sheesh I'm almost 40 and talking through my mom.. ) and they do not accept any other payment method except for direct withdrawal and Western Union.. but WU costs $15 on my end and $15 is added on to the amount on their end to cover the charges... But since the auto-withdrawal is tomorrow it is too late to stop it unless I stop payment on the transaction (which I don't want showing on the mortgage record in case I have to prove that I am capable of handling it myself without H's money)

So I'm probably do the auction-like thing and wait until the last second to deposit the money.. hopefully H will be too "foggy" to be waiting to take it..

I have already become determined to never be in a position of relying on someone else financially again and this just reinforces it.

Even if H wakes up and smells the cappuccino I think I'd insist on separate finances and a joint account for bills. He's too spend happy and I'm thrifty... another of our issues from the M.. I kept having to compensate for his spending...

Going to stop in at the Hydro office tomorrow to change the account for next month's withdrawal.. before I go to my spa appointment (gift certificates are awesome sometimes!)