Oh ya, guys, you called it. Today he's back to it being over, and somehow my fault it's over because I refuse to not talk to friends and family. This started today because I told H that DS and I are going to a play-date tomorrow and H just had to remind me that I can't talk to this friend about us, and that in fact I should be trying to repair the damage I caused. I basically said that I will talk to my friends about what I will, he has no say in it.
Let me backtrack here and tell you a new strategy I have started up in the last few days. When H blows up on cussing rants I pull out my phone and hit the voice record. Texas is a one-party state so this is legal, though H knows I am doing this anyway. It is infuriating him. He starts cussing me out, I hit record. Now he wants me to sign some paper to say I will not record him...ha! Fat chance! Well, H is still trying to google and find a way that this is not legal of me, but I will double-check this with the L tomorrow so I'm going to stay ahead of him on that anyway. Either way, it has the nice effect of cutting his argumentative conversations short.
He also wants me to sign some paper saying I won't talk to family and "his" friends (our friends, actually). He thinks because he's known these friends a year longer than I have he owns the monopoly on them. Well, he doesn't.
So, who wants to place bets on whether he starts up the talking to OW again tonight?
