I've been having discussions in my head. I keep telling myself that I need to be my own agent. So the agent voice is telling me everything you guys are saying. But the wimpy, whiny voice keeps saying, "But, but, but..." I wish I could kick the crap out of the wimpy, whiny voice.
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I have only recently made the decision to call my H's bluff and it is his loss....
And like Rob said earlier, maybe someday they will wake up and realize the mistake they made, maybe they won't. It just seems like she is the one constantly forcing my hand to help her push this along. Making me do all the hard work. Gee... how original W. Just like our marriage.
So Serenity, did he file? Is it final? BTW, I love your name. I'm a huge Joss Whedon "Firefly" fan. However, I'm sure that is not why you chose it, but it is still cool.
The W couldn't even say "I want a divorce". She still hasn't. I had to ask my own bomb, "What are you saying? Do you want a divorce". She just got to said, "yes". It's always "get together to talk about arrangements" or "I don't see a future for us together". Holy sh*t. Just say it already. It's easy. "D-I-V-O-R-C-E". It's not a hard word to pronounce. Well that's it. I wash my hands of doing her dirty work. She can put on her big girl panties and take over from here. Grrr..
I'm putting way to much thought into this. Nothing has really changed other than I have a lot more room in the house. Nothing has been a surprise so far. I have no control over it, so no sense worrying. What happens, happens. Got to stop analyzing it. Focus on the realities. Keep DBing. Shut up wimpy, whiny voice.
I did get something interesting in the mail. A birthday card from my FIL. My MIL is the one who sends the cards. He was the only one to sign it and he signed off "Love". Very weird. That is a definite first. I wonder what's going on.
