I agree that exposure should take place...I, after reading Allens post believe that I should have confronted OM1 at my W's work from the get go...sadly I did not and exposing to Om's LD GF didnt work terribly well b/c she was manipulated.
Anyhoo- I'm upset to hear that H is bringing OW to meet his friends...I recently read about a 5 tier process cheaters go through psychologically: -demonization of spouse -rewriting history -punishing spouse -validating/seeking approval of others -retoring balance (where he wants you to be happy for him)
I'm at stage 5...though not really caving- remaining NC until...
UGH- the things people do...
All for selfish pleasures, individual happiness, and complete avoidance of personal responsibility
