well said lissie,
6 months into my own journey and whilst I am not a reguar poster here I read a lot of the forum most days. I am pragmatic by nature so a lot of what i read translates into action for me!

I am learning to forgive my husband for the devastation and hurt he has caused. I loved him from the moment I laid eyes on him 18 years ago and I can never imagine a time when I don't love him but right now it is time for me to work on me and to protect my chidren and ensure I have no regrets about my behaviour.

You have travelled and interesting road and the lesson of learning is obviously one you will take into your new life.

blessings to you

respect

lalxx

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011