How much longer in Separated?

[jon2911]

This feels like such uncharted territory, even though I've been here 3 years. I can put W on my benefits starting tomorrow, but I don't want to. We still owe money to the IRS, and we're still on the same car insurance. I just bought her a netbook last week, and was angry and sad when it was delivered to work. She's going to pay for it, I'm just hurting right now.

Back to the MWD article I keep posting to everyone else:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Perhaps you are someone whose spouse is in the midst of an affair and it is making you crazy. You feel like giving up on your marriage. Worse yet, you feel like being hurtful.

Yup.

Will write more as I have time.