what does one do then when they change their mind? The reality is that my mouth wrote checks my butt does not want to cash anymore. They were written while I was at a point of despair. How then does one switch gears or change there mind.
What checks are you speaking of?
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In terms of the letter. I am not sure I see it as a control issue. I would agree that it is MY pain and I said as much. I will acknowledge that it is a pain that I need to deal with. That much I agree with. I am not sure why you are saying it is a control issue - so could you explain.
If you give it to her, it is still you imposing yourself on her.
Write it, then reread it, then crumple it up, and burn it.
Yes, Eric, you need to get it out…
But that does NOT mean that she need to hear, see, read, or sense it…
Make sense?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
