How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

No she did not apologize. In her mind she feels ity is justified giving wjat I put her through for so many years. Who am I to argue with her emotions and tell hjer the way she feels is wrong.

I made her lunch because she asked, it is a 180. Before my sitch I would gad sai "pffft make it yourself" or maybe I would had done it reluctantly and let it be know that I was not happy to do it.

I did not offer to make it like I had done in the past. When my sitch first began I was making her lunch every night for 3 weeks straight and leaving little notes in there, I stopped.

On another note I went to a therapist today. It went well but was brief. I will give it another session or two before I ask my W I'd she would like to attend on her own. I am still trying to get a feel for the therapist as well. I don't want it to hurt our marriage any more than it is now