You said you were going to take a break from the board, you didn't.
You said you need to do this (talk with the list), but changed your mind.
Eric, I am not being mean.
I am pointing out that your words and deeds do not match.
Your wife sees that. Bet she saw that for a long time. So your new changes...which haven't had time to stick yet...and haven't really...she doesn't believe.
We believe in history, what someone has done in the past we believe they will do in the future. Your 'changes' are not yet your history.
Not being mean.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK