I don't know what to do. I feel like I've been kicked by a horse. My last secret came out last night (the one night stand). I really wish I didn't love this woman so much. I don't know what to feel, other than hurt about her dating and lying.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)