I also think that your discussion is going to possibly be a waste of your breath. I am afraid that because you want to say so much, the real issues are going to get buried.
She needs to take her share of the bills and you need to be able to coparent.
Beyond that, you could be very possibly be about to put your hand right on the hot burner…
I know it is hard to not say all of the things that we want to say. However, sometimes it just is not the wisest decision. There will come a time that you can say all of that stuff. I have to question if now is that time…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox