I can see if you wanted when/where/how often/what position-type details. Those probably would do nothing to help heal and just leave you with images in your head that you don't need.
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But wanting to know what he felt he was missing, why he reached outside the M to find a way to meet his needs, etc., that is the kind of thing I would want to know, too. And knowing that he has a plan in place so that next time he finds himself feeling the way he felt then (should there be a next time), he doesn't turn away from your marriage, I would want that information as well.
I wanted to know EVERYTHING..............and it helped in the long run
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
