I wanted to add one more thing...

Alot of me being happier does have to do with GAL and being away from the negative actions of husband; however, alot of it also has to do with relocating from the area husband and I were living in due to husband's job.

We BOTH hated the area. When we were first having problems we both were hoping for a relocation soon from his company. At the time husband was blaming his feelings on our marriage and being away from family and friends but MOSTLY on our marriage. I think now he is realizing that he STILL doesn't like the location (even without me around) and is just as miserable.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo