Yes, it certainly would. She lives an hour and a half away, and I just don't have time or energy to do that. If she were closer, I would. I have confronted women at work before.
I am hoping her H wants to talk because I want to teach him a few things. If I expose and he begs, pleads, etc, he'll drive her away. However, if he does the right thing, hopefully he'll be able to put good pressure on her to stay and break it off. I know that's a real long shot, but I'm going to try anyway.
