Thats a good point. I do those things already. I wake up to the best things in my life right now, my kids. They give me the strength to put on a happy face and tell myself that everything is going to be alright.
The problem I have is that my H lives 2 hrs away and we hardly see each other. But when I am around him I try to be as positive and smiley as I can. I try to be the opposite of what I was while we were together. But for me its hard because it feels like because I am so far away from him, I'm out of sight out of mind. Whereas the OW is practically forcing herself on him and into his life, and pushing us out.
But all I can hope is that she keeps forcing him too much and they break up, so that he can maybe realize what he is doing. He has already told me that she is very pushy and her and I are exact opposites, and the impression I get from him is that he isn't liken that very much. BC with me he could do whatever he wanted and she has him on a short leash. (OW didn't like that we spent so much time together last weekend)
He has gone to a IC and now my H feels that his actions are alright and that our marriage isn't worth trying to fix, because he has never been single and is enjoying his lifesyle now. The life with no responsiblities. He has said that his IC is supposedly pro marriage, but I'm starting to think otherwise.
So all I can do now is wake up every morning and do what I do best: take care of my kids and myself.
XH 30 W 29 M 5/Together 9 2 boys ages 3 and 1 Bomb of OW 10/2009 Divorce final 7/2010 Now in limbo
