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dday101,
Im sorry you took offense to my post. I had come back here to add a smiley face to the end of it but this board has a timer on which you can edit posts.

But I so take the stance of once the marriage has been betrayed by an affair then that is where I draw the line. I know many here have moved beyond that point and I envy them and I do so hope to reach that level of understanding.

I would like to point to this "From the affairs, lying, harsh words, and selfishness." Affairs being plural. Yes I would probably say the same thing to my own wife if this was the case.
But that is not anger or hostility, that is just a boundary that I would not let be crossed.