I think more importantly is when I look back will I be able to forgive/forget/move on with my life rather then dwell on what someone else has done. Only knowing one side of the story I would say F the B and get on with life.
No, I get that. I get that we're not really victims in this but active participants in a twisted dance of intimacy. We have the ability to choose our own path. More just curious what people's experience has been.