I'm sorry GD, I know how stressed you must be. Horrible money situation on the top of everything else.

I don't know your H's state of mind. If this was happening with my H, I would e-mail him and tell him: "Just keeping you informed; this is the amount in the account .....and these are the pre-authorized payments that are coming out today". That way he is pre-warned. Would he take money out even if he knew that payments would bounce? If you think he would, you need to go to the bank and tell them your situation, maybe they can hold the funds somehow.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO