I think that's fine, but there's no "or else" in there. What is a boundary, if there is no stated consequence for crossing it??
Ya, I said this before in a different thread
When you confront your spouse for cheating, it is a negotiation, and consequences are your currency. Your spouse needs to know the PRICE he is giong to have to pay to keep the affair going.
The confrontation is where you prsent him with "the bill" for continued promiscuity. The bill itemizes the consequences he brings on himself should he choose to continue.
AND, you present him the more desirable alternative
End the affair, and I tear up this invoice right now... its an easy choice if you play it well
