feel disgusted by the things they've done? Whether the relationship is saved or not, when the smoke clears and the pain, bitterness, and resentment are gone, do you think they feel genuine remorse for the choices they've made? From the affairs, lying, harsh words, and selfishness.

I think about my WAS and all the things she has done and I can't imagine that she can look in the mirror and feel very good about what she sees.

Thoughts?