Show of hands - expose or not - success stories

[JacT]

Passenger I personally think you have to start with a conversation that is between you and him without anyone else present... where is down to you..I am not sure he has fully commited to this OW and would not be too concerned what he is feeding her, lying is standard and comes with A's.The experts say believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see when H;s are in the fog and in the early stages in infatuation.

I am not sure the stats will do what you need them to do. He wont care, he will believe he is in that less than 1% category.
Try not to bring the Ow into your debate, he will only feel he has to defend her.Keep it to you and how your children will be impacted if he continues his behaviour.
What grounds is he planning to D you on?You have not done anything wrong.
Try and concentrate on the positives as well. He is still with you,in your bed,you have the kids, the house, the history. I would say that at the moment all is your favour not the OW.
They use them and abuse them..