Granted. Bad word. Not mistake, she made an awful decision.
The worst one can made in a marriage. Agree but I can't write
off the circumstances. And yes, I feel incredibly angry at times.
And then I go to the gym and burn that anger. It's there, still.
But today, maybe is seeing this poor woman in denial made
me think how the person inflicting the worst kind of damage
to my wife, it's not OM. It's herself.

If only she'd realise what she's been doing... Hope she does and
it's not too late. That BF worries me a lot.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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