I am not sure I should tell you what to do so I'll tell you what I would do instead...Since I want to be a very nice and kind person I would continue to set out the plate for her just do not expect anything from her. This is gonna be hard but you can do it. If she sits down and eats - great - if not - great. Another opition could be to set aside a plate for her and eat when you and the kids feel like it. Just remember...think of how she may interpret your actions. She may look at this as some sort of guilt treatment or preasure.
Thanks for your insight. And I have the right mindset since I decided that I was going to be come more active and cook each night. I have it that I don't expect anything from her. I do hope that she'll at least sit down and talk to the kids. I just need to make sure that I am active in the conversation and not looking like my dog got run over. I've been doing good at it so far.
Now I just need my glass of STFU and I'll be good for today.
Thanks Eric, i feel like I'm on a healthy but wobbly path.
Aces.
I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.
Like: D7 S2 starting swimming lessons on 3/30
"Readily will I display the intestinal fortidue required to fight on..."
