I'm not sure I can clarify that other than to say if I wasn't perfect why couldn't she accept that then. She wanted me to forgive her when she would be [fill in the blank], but she wouldn't forgive me to allow us to come together in intimacy. She would say you said/did [fill in the blank], yet if I would mention that she said/did [fill in the blank], she would freak out that I brought it up and "still haven't forgiven her for it".
I don't know what GALing is, is that another poster?
