It happens dude - so don't beat yourself up about it. Try and learn from it and make sure you do not keep repeating the same mistakes.
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The crystal ball is being shelved
Good it really does not good to keep it out in the open.
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I just need to take one down each day instead of trying to do them all at once or say that I am going to because then i don't end up doing any thing.
Very Good buddy - very good.
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Do you think I should stop doing the dinner thing? Or should I just not set a place for her and have dinner made and the kids and I eating when she shows up after work?
I am not sure I should tell you what to do so I'll tell you what I would do instead...Since I want to be a very nice and kind person I would continue to set out the plate for her just do not expect anything from her. This is gonna be hard but you can do it. If she sits down and eats - great - if not - great. Another opition could be to set aside a plate for her and eat when you and the kids feel like it. Just remember...think of how she may interpret your actions. She may look at this as some sort of guilt treatment or preasure.
Your doing good buddy.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
