THEY have trouble knowing why they're doing what they're doing, so it's even harder for the LBS to figure it out ... besides which, you can only engage in mindreading, not solid proof of anything.
On the whole, I'd assume it's just more cake-eating: making sure he still has access to both of you. My H said he felt the best when he was sure he could have a relationship with both me and the OW (because he didn't have to make any hard decisions).
Try to keep the focus on you and your children--what have you got planned for Easter?
