Oh DG yuck!!! I am totally dismayed by your H abandoning his responsibility as a father . I would phone the mortgage company or bank and ask if you can arrange to make the mortgage payment in a different way. They must encounter situations like this. If you can do anything to redirect money that you are entitled to so that he doesn't have access to it, I suggest you do that right away. Definitely see a L. It sounds like you're sending a clear and strong message via your SIL. Good for you and stay strong (((DG))) .
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I would phone the mortgage company or bank and ask if you can arrange to make the mortgage payment in a different way. They must encounter situations like this. If you can do anything to redirect money that you are entitled to so that he doesn't have access to it, I suggest you do that right away. Definitely see a L. It sounds like you're sending a clear and strong message via your SIL. Good for you and stay strong (((DG))) .
