uggggh,

I know that 'one up' game all too well.

Fortunately in your case as in mine, your H is slowly doing himself in saying he's going to "do this and do that" and it never materializes. Your D13 will see this soon for herself soon enough and the "daddy praise" will die out in it's own due time.

In the meantime, WITHOUT making it a competition, find new things to do with your D13. This not only will take her mind off the "daddy praise", it will set your mind at ease in doing so and forge a new relationship with her.

Lastly, until D13 sees that H is full of junk, you need to train yourself to just let it all roll off.

Last edited by dday101798; 03/31/10 04:23 PM. Reason: I need to proof-read

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11