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[/quote]She also wants me to have more of a presence when I lead.[quote]


Just a thought but maybe she is looking for you to lead else where also.
Maybe if you are able to somehow manage your anxiety re-guarding intimacy she will follow your lead.
I understand that you feel pressure, I am thinking W does also.
JAK

Last edited by JoJo's circus; 03/31/10 03:56 PM.
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