honestly...i don't know what to do with this agreement. should i sign it? should i not sign it? it's a separation agreement, and we can't legally file for D for another 4 months (we have to live separately for 6 months to file uncontested), but...

do i resist the idea of D by not signing? will that push my H further towards wanting a D?

do i show my H i love him enough to let him go by signing? if we both sign and then file this document, IF we decide to reconcile afterwards, we have to sign a legal document and file that, too...

i feel very very hopeless today. he really seems to believe that the damage is done and can't be repaired. or rebuilt.


Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless