Like with most things when she doesn't want to talk about something she drops the topic by not responding to my emails or rolling her eyes and walking away like she heard me but not really buying it.
After reading your guys' responses about kids and your husbands blowing up etc I'm really feeling horrible about myself. I did yell at her a few times in the heat of the argument, I did criticize her for stupid stuff (not realizing that's how she'd take it) and despite my trying not to, it even happened in front of DD a few times because she's with us 99% of the time. Ugh! I feel that she's right - and it is my fault and now it's just too little too late. In my up-bringing parents arguing and sometimes getting upset at eachother was OK and part of life, they always said life is tough and always has its ups and downs but what's important is unity and love amongst us. But maybe that's not healthy and that's why she thinks DD is better off separate than together? Actually, I really don't even know exactly what it is this time that she doesn't like - I'm sure it's multiple things.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
